Life & Love

Dear E. Jean: In 2008 I made a sex tape with my boyfriend at the time. The affair ended badly. We’ve not been on civil terms since—in fact, we’re not speaking. Now, with a more sensible head on my shoulders, I’m applying to be an elementary school teacher. If I were establishing a career in
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One friend who recently broke up with her boyfriend looked at the books he left behind on their shared bookshelf, which included Frida Kahlo’s diary and Salt by Nayyirah Waheed. “If I was going home with him now,” she told me, “these books would definitely tell me that he’s a thoughtful man who values reading
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Dear E. Jean: Serious question: Does life actually get better after you get past your twenties? Success was already starting to happen to the Brontë sisters by the time they reached my age: 23. I’m falling behind my peers and feel I can’t catch up! Please tell me the thirties are better. —Your Wilting Gardenia
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Aries Taking surf lessons or testing your daredevil skills with an extreme sport like kitesurfing.  Advertisement – Continue Reading Below Advertisement – Continue Reading Below Taurus Grill-mastering on a hibachi and feeding everyone around you so they won’t bitch at you about your loud music. Advertisement – Continue Reading Below Advertisement – Continue Reading Below
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Intent on making 2017 your Best Year Ever? We can help with that, thanks to our 2017 Coach of the Month series. For July, we have Samantha Irby, author of We Are Never Meeting In Real Life.. This week, she implores you to stop cutting the doughnuts in the break room into 1/8 sections because
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Welcome to “The Perfect,” ELLE.com’s weekly roundup, where we lay out exactly what you’ll need for the perfect outfit, shopping list, Saturday night, or whatever it may be. In a shopping landscape where the options are endless, consider it a complete snapshot of must-haves. Getting away from it all doesn’t require leaving on a jet
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Malin wears her own uniform and Carrera sunglasses, $149, nordstrom.com When you listen to Rydqvist talk about flying, it’s obvious that “pilot” would have been her childhood dream job. But didn’t see it as an option for herself. “My mum is in aviation and when I was a kid, she’d take me on her flights.
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Dear E. Jean: There’s this gorgeous guy at the office with whom I’ve hooked up several times. I care deeply about him, but when I try to kiss him, he’ll say: “I’ll make you a deal. You give me oral sex, and I’ll kiss you.” I want my hand held! I want to be cuddled!
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Having exhausted my canon of Sex and the City quotes but still thirsty for a script to follow on Tinder, I texted 10 randos using only lines from Game of Thrones, and this is what happened: 1. This Raving Professor Tinder Advertisement – Continue Reading Below How much fun is Berlin if you’re still talking
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1 Allison Williams, ‘Girls’ The scene: Marnie masturbates in a public bathroom while leaning against the door. Her comments on it: “A scene like [that] just gets added to the pile and gets smushed in. It’s been really interesting being interviewed and being asked about it so much, because I’m like, ‘Oh, yeah, well there have been seven
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Dear E. Jean: After ending a six-year affair with a married man (I’m surprised I’m still alive after the biggest crash of my life), I started meeting people online. One guy, the most gorgeous Frenchman ever (my age—36—and single) showed me a lot of attention. He said he’d “found the woman of his dreams.” I
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I used to take a certain amount of solace in announcing that my ex-boyfriend had cheated on me. Something about publicly owning my role as the injured party helped restore a tiny sense of power and confidence that his actions had initially left me without. It was a simple answer to “why did you two
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Dear E. Jean: For 15 years I’ve been seeing the same man. We’re about the same age, and when we’re together we talk about politics and food, our lives and the deaths of people we’ve loved. I’ve been through tough times in my life, and he’s been with me through it all. And he’s always
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Bless Amazon Prime Day, a made-up holiday that’s really all about shopping. The beauty of the site means that there’s something to discover in every category, including home. Here, professional picks from Jessica Cumberbatch Anderson, site director at ELLEDecor.com. 1 French Press “Though bar carts are perennially fashionable, I love the idea of setting up
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A current marker of social status is how fast we know about obscure European lifestyles. Hygge is out, friluftsliv is in, and any minute now another adorable way of living that’s hard for English-speakers to pronounce will make its way onto the bestseller list and into furniture catalogs. We propose that lifestyle be Cwtch. Cwtch
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After Trevicia’s daughter was born, they along with Will moved yet again, this time to eastern Texas. Later, Will made a trip back to Houston, claiming he needed to pick up a few more of their things, but he never returned. Trevicia learned that he’d been having an affair with a 21-year-old neighbor back in
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